What is this guys deal.. ?
Anyhow not having a good day very upset need advice- Long story short, broke out of this 3 year crazy hectic relationship. The ex and I split for 4 months now, Havent heard from him would reply to my texes etc, up until 9 days ago i have been great! stopped calling and realizing he wasnt gonna tex back, i finally went out met ppl this wknd felt good, and last night at 5 am he calls me!! He was the one to end us, and was sooo sure he was done , not working out n never would call me again, he said please move on , i love u but move on, Soooo i have been- Now he calls me at 5 am, i said im sleepin n have work in 2 hours. He shows up at my door, jumps in my bed and acts like we have been great and nothing every happen. I went to work, here i am now and i texed him like please dont do this again, i am trying to get over u and look what ur doing 
!!! He never wrote back, my cousin was at my house when he left at 1030 am cus she has been spending the night and she said he was like wow she still has my clothes here and told her i do love her meaning me but we just clash so much. we just arent ment to be he said to my cousin but he loves me.. What the hell is going on?? KAZLITH u are such a great help, please advise, also i signed up for that hypnosis. I hope it works!
21 hours ago – 3 days left to answer.
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And to top it off he looks great- he had a 7 karat watch, new jewlery, etc!!! Lost weight! It sucks.. he has all this money, left me and our apt high and dry and does this again! I feel like if i dont let him in or except his calls -that could be my chance of that 1 call that could hace made it work.
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Find a person to talk to and vent already so you can move on. There’s still a lot of feelings bottled up you need to get out before you can honestly move onto a new healthy relationship.
well basically hes being a typical asshole
dump him sounds like ur being used
3 years is a long time. I was in a very similar situation with my last boyfriend. What does he do for a living and why did yall break up? You must fight about something. You are obviously very much in love with him and It’s obvious he finds you irresistable or he would have been able to stay away and you would not have allowd him to stay.
The best thing I can say is to stay friends with him, but don’t give you everything to him. Dont let him stay with you and def. dont let him live with you. You really need to stay busy and even date other people if you can. This is a good way to show him that you are not wrapped around his finger and that you are capable of taking care of yourself.
Trust me if you guys can be friend through this and continue to have feelings for eachother then he will do what ever he has to do to get you back, but let him work for it. I did not give my x any attention, did not believe anything he said, dated other men, stayed busy with school and work. 1 year after our break up we are still really good friend he finally started going to college, working out and sending me flowers(which he never did in the 3 years we dated.) I still have not completely commited myself to him because I am enjoying the way things are, but I can actually see us getting married someday in the future now.
I realized through all of this (i dont know how old you are) that I am too young to get married so why have a boyfriend. I mean I had one for 3 years and we broke up. I am so happy I am single for the forst time in a very long time and the guy that I love still loves me. If we are meant to be then that will be but not now I am not ready. By the way I am dating a couple of guys (all my exes- weird but true) Sometimes I think they are all losers but I dont want to meet new guys either. If I meet this amazing man then great if not then hopefully Freddy(the guy I was with for 3 years) and I will still be best friends and want to get married. Maybe not. Somethings you can’t control and if you try it will just get worse. Go with the flow and don’t give him everything he wants and dont believe anythign he says. Tell him I will believe it when I see it and laugh… He knows he better do something